On many silent krasneya, whispering open in this issue his own friend, because of that people go in themselves, are irritability and hate everything around. For this reason, the pair fall.
What is it could spoil life?
It is not difficult to guess that we are talking about sexual abstinence.
Abstention - is a process of transformation of sexuality. In its development there is usually some dynamics: first, after the cessation of sexual contact, a person can feel calm and relief, then going on improving sexual attraction and discomfort arises from the inability of its grant.
Then, on Freud, all of these “martyrdom” and “suffering” sublimiruyutsya into other spheres of life.
So libido and a man commits over its neseksualnuyu work, while maintaining its kind “baseline” level that based on it under favourable circumstances again deploy in its entirety. Time-frame stadium transformations sexuality when abstinence can vary significantly.
Interestingly, that, realizing some regularities related to the rhythms of sexual activity, you can consciously influence the body’s condition and achieve certain goals.
Yes, there is such a fact - abstinence within three months from conception occurs Ostashkovs female fetus.
Let us check with the benefits than harm or sexual abstinence?
The first thing you can say for sure - we are all different and if someone moves easily and abstinence does not think about it, it can not be unequivocally decide that for them this harm, but those who did not represent his life without sex, suffer from a lack of sexual relations.
Someone believes that abstinence - is a period of months to several years, someone thinks that if even one night held without sex, everything! Living up to!
To make some clarity to the current topic, you must bear in mind that the effect of abstinence (by the way, as “frequent” rhythm sexuality), must be considered in connection with the level of sexual attraction, personality characteristics (in terms of propensity to nevrotizatsii) and the sexual health.
Usually, if the level of sexual attraction “low”, then moved abstinence easier, and vice versa.
If a person is prone to neurotic reactions, then abstinence, and “frequent” rhythm cause of neurotic condition - increased irritability, decreased mood, there testily, and may even aggressive state.
So, the harm of sexual abstinence for men:
In principle, much depends on age: the older, the more dangerous refrain. It may stop functioning altogether sexuality, because at the age decline in sexual attraction overlaid falling libido of abstinence. This - pessimistic view. But, again, modern drugs induce men’s sexual response, even in cases where there are no sexual attraction. How would this not sound funny, but after Seno amount of time can be as innocent can not get back to normal sexual relations.
Remember, once we were told of the famous John Greye sexology, which held seven years in Tibet in the guise monk, I understood that this life is not for him and decided to revert to normal “human life”. In fact, it only served to benefit him. The point is that it all better understand the psychology of women. Every time a woman saying that after seven years of abstinence, he did not recall or did not know that what and how better in terms of intimacy, and especially his concerned - how to behave, that woman was necessary for her result.
So, ladies willingly told cunning and clever chastity former monk, as they bring pleasure.
As for women, there is such a moment, if a man say inexperienced becomes impotent man, the woman - frigid. In fact, everything is not so simple. Here the situation is such that people like running or moving in this rhythm of life, that is “Movement for Life”.
There are three interrelated forms of heterosexual relations free love, marriage, and prostitution.
From the long-term abstinence (as, indeed, and from frequent sexual intercourse) woman can move, while in one form of relationship to another and back.
However, the same has been linked to men.
Injury sexual abstinence is generally determined by the meaning of sexual relations, which man and woman are investing in sexual intercourse.
At the beginning of sexual activity generally increased, at least, there is no bilateral reduce sexual activity, that is or someone “does not want”, or “no”. And this leads to sexual abstinence, which in turn leads to the disintegration of the pair.
In contrast, such a pessimistic attitude right and the other. If stopped sexual relations, an occasion to discuss and understand what is happening. This path - to strengthen and develop relations.
If we talk about the benefits of sexual abstinence, the following advantages: for men - is preserving itself, dignity called loyal husband, and for women - Preparing for the better, not waste themselves on unnecessary sex.
Often, and, even, basically, with the resumption of sexual relations raises some problems, for example, reduced the duration of sexual intercourse, but not at all and this is valid, in principle, is that the activity is restored.
Here’s a scientific fact
The presence or absence of painful sensations when you have to be sexual abstinence among men and women depends on the expression of sexual attraction, sexual constitution individual characteristics, personality traits, temperament, social and household and many other factors.
When slabovyrazhennom attracted sexual abstinence possibly for several months and even years without much harm to the body, with sexual attraction silnovyrazhennom possible negative impact on mental and physical activity, mood, efficiency, increased occurrence of neuro-psychological excitability with a sense of dissatisfaction. Existing mechanisms for self-man sexual function can alter the intensity of sexual attraction for periods of forced sexual abstinence.
In principle, as it turned out, something not particularly harmful abstinence, as they frightened inexperienced minds. Above all, this is good recovery, because abstinence can affect the mental and rights, then recover will be much more difficult.
But if a person with the psyche everything is in place, then more and more often think about physical health, because abstinence is often equated to frequent sexual relations until disordered ties. Therefore, choose themselves, it is better, worse: to keep itself (but there is a danger both to hold all his life) or suffer from certain problems related to diseases, infections and broken hearts.
The best of all this - this regularity and Good personal life.